Letters to the Editor

Abdul Aziz, Riyadh

Ref. YMD, Feb.05 issue, p.5, “In  Love with an Old Man.” Your answer is more than excellent, but you did not mention the prohibition in Islam for a woman to marry to a non-muslim. I wish to know whether there is any particular reason?

YMD

Instead of abc, we thought we will start with “def”.

On p.7 you have mentioned “In a similar manner you can keep loving him until you die – without ever visiting him.”

Is such a love permitted to a Muslimah?

YMD

Permission! Who is looking for permission? In any case, the Qur’an said, “And marry not idolateresses until they believe. Surely, a believing slave‑girl is better than a (free) idolateress, even if she is alluring to you. And give not in marriage (your women) to idolaters until they believe. Surely, a believing slave is better than a (free) idolater even if he is alluring to you. These beckon you to the Fire while Allah beckons you to paradise and pardon by His leave. And He makes clear His commandments to the people; haply so they may remember.”

Note the words “even if she/he is alluring to you.”

With ref. to your words, “There is another suggestion.  Since your love is not influenced by lust, as you claim, he will be as good after five years as he is now, or maybe more attractive.  So, marry him after five years;”I do understand what you tried to teach her here, no old man will become more attractive after 5 years.

YMD

If wrinkles are the line of attraction, increase in love with increase in wrinkles is the likely outcome.

I don’t understand your comment “so, marry him after five years!” Ins’t he after all a non-muslim?

YMD

In five years time she is very likely to become a Muslim.

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