Letters to the Editor

Q. I have been a subscriber of your magazine for the last two years and I should say you all are doing a fantastic job. May Allah accept your service in the way of Islam and bless us all to follow the true path based on The Qur’an and Sunnah. I have a few questions; hope I get very clear answers. Please put some light on growing a beard and the do’s and don’ts in that connection. 

YMD 

Not keeping a beard is Islamically Fisq and keeping it has no other do’s and don’t do’s attached to it.

Q. What is a man supposed to do when his wife tries all the tricks possible to get the man shave the beard. 

YMD

There is nothing a wife can do if a husband keeps a beard. You need to tell her in a mild manner, to not to speak to on the issue except positively. If she doesn’t desist, put some firmness in your words.

Your wife meets with the qualification indicated in the Hadith literature as a sign of the closeness of the Doomsday: a time will come when people will prevent the good and command the evil.

Q. Please tell us whether the number 786 used commonly by Muslims as short form for Bismillah Arrahaman Arrahim, is acceptable. 

YMD

Desecration of Allah’s name is a grave sin. If you believe the paper on which His name appears will not be treated with respect, then do not write the name. Replace it with “Bi-ismihi-subhanahu (meaning “In His blessed name”), or merely “Bi-ismihi” (meaning, “In His name”) or, in English, “In the name of the Merciful” etc.

Q. I have some friends and relatives who are definitely on the wrong path. One of them is known for lending money on interest and another is running a bar and restaurant right in front of a big Mosque. To keep their identity concealed, they have also resorted to hanging and garlanding photos of Hindu deities. Please advice as to what should be my response to people like these. My efforts to explain to the Bar person has only received angry reactions, and I am sure that they know not much about Islam nor are they interested in knowing anything about it. 

YMD

Every effort should be made, by every means, to revive their faith in Islam. Gift them a Plaque with Allah’s words (4: 48), “Surely, Allah will never forgive that He be associated with, but might forget anything less than that, whom He will.” If all the measures fail, they may be left to their fate. 

Q. I personally do not want to even enter the houses of these persons. Can I do that and when asked by other relatives to tell them the true reason that it is because of their business?

YMD

It is right that, so far as possible, you should not enter into their homes. As regards telling people who ask for reasons, they can be of two kinds: those who know the nature of their business, and those who do not. To those who know the nature of their business, you could give out the reason, but in indirect terms. To others, you must not reveal the nature of their business by giving out that as the reason for not intermixing with them. However, if you are in doubt (whether they know about the nature of their business or not), ask the inquirer, “do you know what sort of business they do?” If he says yes, be quiet after that, and he will know the reason.

Q. My personal suggestion is that you should start with Islamic History in place of Invincible Abdullah, though I understand the morale behind the story. There is a greater need to learn the Islamic History and articles on at least one subject per month on the prevailing customs which go against Islamic beliefs, which we all know are many.

Xxx,
Bangalore

YMD 

Thank you for the suggestion, we shall look into it.

 

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