Letters to the Editor

Zahir Shaikh, via email

In the process of seeking a job I used to sit on internet frequently. But I got addicted to the evil things watching photos of actresses on internet. I know that I am doing a wrong thing, but not able to control my desire. I have some questions regarding this.

Is it haram in Islam?

YMD

Looking at non-mahram women or their photographs is unlawful for a Muslim male.

Will my fast be complete if I continue while fasting?

YMD

A hadith says: “He who did not give up deceitful words, acting in their light, or indulging in other ignorant acts (may know that) Allah has no need of him that he should give up his food and drink.”

Fasts are a spiritual exercise designed to make us give up evil habits and thoughts. If the very purpose is defeated, the ritual is rendered futile. Fasts and pornography are conversely related.

I heard that self-satisfaction is good compared to involving in pre-marital sex. Is it right?

YMD

Your words hold good if a Muslim is left with no other choice but it. But, to postpone marriage for material reasons, such as a good career, or a well-settled job, etc., then that would not be called as a situation of no other choice.

I want to control the feelings and get rid of them. Can you suggest something?

YMD

You may try and allot little more time to devotional acts, religious reading, and add to your company one or two devoted Muslims.

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