Letters to the Editor

Mrs. Shaikh Farooq Mohammed, via email

I have a few questions:

I know that in Islam a woman cannot lead in prayer. But suppose some ladies gather for tajweed and then it is time for prayer, how should the ladies pray? Singly? Or can one of them lead the prayer? If yes, then should she follow the same rules as an imaam follows?

YMD

Firstly, it must be realized that the Shari`ah requirements are not easy to meet with. They  require commitment, struggle against odds, special care and attention, and, therefore, some amount of sacrifice. Accordingly, anyone who seeks addition over and above what the Shari`ah has already prescribed as obligatory does not wear a smart hat. It is like asking someone to get a degree in engineering so as to find job opportunities. He says, “Naa. Engineering is fine. But, to qualify myself better I shall attempt a degree in medicine also. With two degrees, I shall have greater chance of landing a job!”

Congregational Prayers are not a Shari`ah requirement for women. They are told they will get the same rewards for praying individually. Now, if one of them says, “We want more obligations placed on us, or we will do it voluntarily,” then to assess such a person’s intellectual capacity would not require a college degree.

Now, directly to the main question: the situation is that women get together in an assembly that runs into Prayer-time, what should they do? The answer is there. Do, what the Shari`ah has asked you to do. If the Shari`ah requires a single degree, don’t offer two.

(We are reminded of a joke that an Egyptian narrated to us about himself during a Hajj-journey. After arriving in the USA, he remained unemployed for a long while despite his two Masters in two different science subjects. The first job that he landed, after several months of unemployment and at the brink of starvation, was as a packer. That is, packing goods in the dispatch department of an industry. He hated the job, but it offered him relief. One day the boss strolled by. “Hmm. You seem to be good at packing” he muttered.” The Egyptian replied, “I can do better” “How?” asked the boss. He said, “I hold two Masters, one in physics, and another in nuclear physics.” The boss was surprised. He said, “That’s interesting,” and walked away. Next day he was fired. The reason given was: he was overqualified).

In attempting something not asked of us, we could run into several problems. One, whose commands do we follow? Second, we are taking extra efforts, who will reward us? (If we say we do it because we like it, then, are we doing it for fun?) Thirdly, of human beings there are two kinds. The second kind undergoes sudden physical changes. The moment cannot be pre-determined. It arrives on a sudden, to the embarrassment and discomfort of the individual, who does best to conceal it. What happens when one is leading in Prayers? Confusion! Explanations! Embarrassments. Forced to lie. So, why take the risk?

Back to the main question: What happens if women do prayers among themselves in congregation? Is it allowed? The answer is: Yes.

In your recent issue there was a question related to marriages between cousins. Recently I came to know through someone that marriages between cousins is allowed in Islam but our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) has discouraged it. I asked him for the hadith but so far I have not received any.

YMD

You will not receive any because it does not exist.

He also said that it is allowed on certain conditions like if a person’s cousin is poor and has average looks due to which it is difficult for her to get decent proposals or say any proposals at all. In that case one should marry one’s cousin so that Allah will reward him, is it correct?

YMD

Morality and charitable works are always praiseworthy.

Is Khizr still alive? While I was attending an ijtemaa a lady said during her discourse said that it is stated in the Qur’an that Allah gave Khizr Aab-e-Hayaat to drink. So he is still alive and is at present at the bottom of the oceans and give ghusl to all those who die due to drowning.

YMD

An ingenious story spun with complete dexterity. If the lady worked hard enough and wrote fairy-tales, she could sell them like Harry Potter series.

I checked in surah al-Kahf but did not find any such thing. I study Tafheem al-Qur’an.

YMD

This perhaps is the book you should advise this lady of yours to study.

Is it true that our Prophet was under the spell of witchcraft and the last two surahs, (nos. 113 and 114), were revealed to cure him and to show mankind that all cures rest with Allah?

YMD

Whoever said the Prophet suffered magical spell is making an incorrect statement. The narrator must add that it was so mild that none of his closest Companions ever suspected of it. Indeed, it was so mild that the Prophet himself was not sure about its nature. Finally, had he not mentioned it, no one would have known he underwent the experience. Without adding these details, to accuse the Prophet of having suffered magical spell amounts to blasphemy. As an example we can say that a running nose is a “kind of sickness.” We have no other way of describing a man wiping his nose with a tissue paper. But to say that the man is sick is a gross overstatement. It is a lie.

That all cure is with Allah is true but it cannot be related as the cause of revelation of the two chapters.

Some time back I watched ‘Q’ TV.

YMD

Islam on TV is the next fitnah the Ummah faces.

In the program, the maulana received a phone call and after few hours he gave the solution to the caller saying that after doing istikhaara he had come to know the problem. Then he advised the man that “first and foremost you should pray 5 times daily and also the tahajjudd.” Then he gave the names of Allah to be recited after each prayer some thousand times. I do not believe anyone can find that out through Istikhara. What’s your opinion?

YMD

Our opinion is the same as yours.

The salesman’s cleverness, we are sure, should be apparent to you also.

I and my daughters want to learn Arabic language through correspondence in English language as we are not getting a tutor who can teach us in English. Can you guide us to some institution where we can get books, CDs and where we can also appear for exams? We will be grateful.

YMD

The educational section of Iqra Welfare Trust offers a course. Hopefully, you will soon hear from them.

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